Monday, January 29, 2007

Just wondering... (Task 5)

First of all, I must say you've all done a great job!!!

I couldn't stop reading your bright and interesting ideas last night and it seems to me that you either enjoyed the topic or you are just very well acquainted with the "rules of behaving" once being in a relationship.

I am also glad to see that you've started to communicate with your classmates. Remember, you can always comment their work or ask THEM some additional questions.

While reading your responses, I was just wondering... How do you feel about INTERNET DATING? Is it just a funny way of meeting new people or COULD it be dangerous as well?

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi. I think that internet dating can be interesting and funny but also dangerous. A good friend of mine met a boy on the internet and they are four years together now. But i also heard when some boy fallowed girl around and raped her then because that girl told him where will she go, where she lives,.... So a talk with people that i know on the internet, because i never know who is the person on that side of computer. There are many crazy people on this crazy world and you never know who he realy is, if you don´t have him in front of you. You can get lucky and the person is realy who he claims that he is. Or you get some psyhopat on your chests. In that case i would be very scared. You can called me old fashion but In my opinion is the old way for meeting boys and girls the best. Ok if you known them and you chet on the internet unstad on the phone. Today the sience is so developed that a computer geek can find your addresse, your name, your birth date,...everything. So i will just talk with my friends for now on the internet. And you...you can do what you want to do:)

Have a sunny day you all !!!

Manca H.

Anonymous said...

Hi!
I agree with Manca. I know that internet dating can be dangurous so I talk just with my friends.
You can never know is somebody is ˝normal˝ on the other side =)
My opinion is that many people don´t tell the truth when they are talking on the internet... I rellay don´t like talking across the computer, becouse I belive that you really know person when you are talking to him/her in life, not on the internet. If I have time I prefer go out (on walk, drink...) than talking on the computer. I also belive that everybody have energy which is typical just for him/her and if you belong together you ˝feel˝ this energy... which is importat if you want to stay together, like couple.
That is only my opinion that people hardly lie in your face like in computer :) so I rather talk in life =)
...but everyone have one head and diffrent thinkig so i can´t say that i have right :)

..enjoy you day =)

Katja Bidovec

Anonymous said...

Hi.
*Hmmm,I agree with Manca and Katja,i think that internet dating can be really interesting and funny most for the disapointet people who are scared to go on another date or something and for teenagers(12-14)but in this time(12-14)are specialy girls really naive and for that girls can be really dangerous because you can find anything about them(they really don´t know whitch thing they shouldn´t tell anybody).
*I must say something more about trust and that things-I don´t trust anybody unknown from the internet because i heard some disgusting stories like Manca,but i wasn´t that suspicious when I was 12-14...=)
*But i also think that here in Slovenia we have luck beacause we don´t have really big population and we are small country whitch is not that rave yet.Yes we have exception like Sil** Pl** and Trob** and other heckers and strangers but we can do nothing...=)
*But in the other side =))) internet dating is really ql!! Hehe, i met my boyfriend on the internet chat club(or something like that-called irc)and i am with him since january 2005...........................

Katja P.

Anonymous said...

Hmmm something more,sorry for grammar mistakes and...hmm this topic is really interesting..!!..intaresting topics are also-- losing weight or how to forget boy and go on with your life....or something like that...=)

Katja P.

Anonymous said...

i agree with every my classmates.

i think that internet dating is for everybody, mostly teenagres, who are lonely and don`t have so many friends. or people, who are just bored. i know one girl who met a boy on inetrnet. he was so great...she said so. they met to each other. he was realy obssesed with her. first date was great, they realy conected. but then...he started to folowing her...and called her all the time and wrote her letters! she was realy depresed because of that. then one day she decided that she will told everything to her parents. she did it. her father decided to inform against him. but he attained nothing, so the girl was still in danger. they moved...and now she is finaly save! she hate inetrnet now.
i think people are to much naive. specialy young people, who have to less self-confidence. they don´t even know how is to meet somebody in a live. they couldn`t be relax in a live, just front of the comp.
i enumerated just realy scary reasons, i told just why internet is not good, but my opinion is that internet dating is not OK.
katja you realy had great expiriances with inetrnet dating...that is great! and i am realy happy for you and i hope that many people had same expiriances. ;)
Anita P.

Anonymous said...

I think that internet chating is a fun way to spend you're free time.But I absolutely don't agree that this should be a way getting to know people.On the internet I only chat with the people I already know ...with strangers I usually do not talk to, cause you never know who is on the other side..I also think that eye-conctact is very important.You can learn a lot about a person by just looking into his/her eyes..You can tell if a person is lying,if he's imberesed..You cannot have eye-concact throught the internet..So I still think that eye to eye conversation is much better that typing.But still the most positive thing about internet is that you're phone bill is much smaller.I always arange things with my friends over the interet, because it's very cheaper for me =)All in all internet is very fun , but you just have to be careful who you talk to ...

Monika Milojčić

Katja.G said...

It looks like many of us had the experience of knowing a girl or a boy who went on a date with a person she/he met on the internet. I also had a friend back in high school who met a boy online (in the chat room) and went out with him, but the minute they spent some time together in a "real situation" they knew it wouldn't work. Chatting online was something quite different than talking to a person face to face. So again, I agreee with all of you and I'm happy to hear that Katja P. has found the "mister right" with a help of the internet.

Anonymous said...

It is true that in the real life you can say or do something different than you would do on the internet. If you met that person you don´t have time to think before you answer and you can´t hide your feelings in that moment. But on the internet you can write that you are sorry for him, when you are realy smiling and making jokes out of him. So the internet is not so personal comunication. In the other way if you are shy, you can say something to a boy or a girl who you like. And that brings me right to the begining. We are all different and we all make our own desicions. If something bad happens to someone, that don´t mean that that will happen to me too. So... we must enyoy while we are young and silly:) and the whole future is right in front of us. WHATCH OUT FOR YOUR SELF. And I won´t be mad if someone from time to time will look out for me to;)
Good night!

Manca H.

Anonymous said...

I totaly agree with Manca and all the other classmates.I really enjoyed reading all of the comments.I think that internet dating is very unreal,bacause the person on the other side can say whatever he/she wants and you can´t know if they are jocking or they are serious.Maybe he/she is just pretending to be someone that they are not and when you meet him/her in person you are thinking:"Who the .... is this?":)or you have to run because your date is a total psichopat!Sore not always ends like that and you can find your soulmate on the internet but it is always very risky.but I like eyecontact better because the person next to you doesn´t have so much time to think and they are usualy forced to tell the truth,or their eyes give them away.I talk only with friends on internet or with people that I know that are not crazy:)And I also,just like Monika said,like the internet chating because it is a lot cheaper than talking on the phone and we all know that money can be a big problem sometimes.Be careful when you are chating on the net, nowdays can be very dangerous

have a nice day
KATJA S.

Anonymous said...

uhhh....I just forgot to say that I completely agree also with katja´s b. comment about the enrgie betwen two people.....I also belive in that aldove many people don´t.Everyone has its own energie that´s why some of us go together well and some don´t:):)
Beside it would be considerably "boring" if we all would get along perfect don´t you think?:D:D

KATJA S.

Anonymous said...

Hi. On the one way I think that, internet dating can be interesting and good thing, because you can meet a lot of different new people. But on the other way can be very dangerous, because you don`t know what kind of person speak with you. A lot of pepole can meet a boy or a girl on the internet, but I think that with it you can meet a wrong person. There are a lot of different people in the world nowdays, and all of them try to speak on the computer using beautiful words. But if you meet him/her on the street in the town, they can be very rude, I am persuade about that.
I absolutely agree with my classmates, that you never know who sit before the computer. My opinion about this topic is that, every person has to do what they think that it is right.
But I am persuade that I won`t have a internet dating in my near future.

Samir Kolenovič

Anonymous said...

To me it is a funny way of meeting new people, but it has it's holes in it. you should never trust a person over the internet, unless you know people who know that person and you are sure that there's no lying involved.
Things can get dangerous aswell, but I think that problems like that are not that common in Slovenia yet.
Still, dating someone over the internet sucks! I mean come on, I don't want to just read the boy and look at his picture when we could do so much more. :)

Written by your dear Aleksandra, haha :)

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